Just as many do this time of year, I have spent much time reflecting on what Christmas means to me. From the first jingle of bells, the first Ho Ho Ho, the first lighting of the Christmas tree, the spirit of the Christmas season kicks into high gear. But really, what does it mean and why does it seem to only happen during a specific brief period of time in December each year?

As part of our journey to living a more meaningful life with less, we continue to question what brings joy and meaning to our lives. What is necessary and what is superfluous? What does the “season of giving” really mean? How do you model a simpler, yet joyful life for the young children without putting a damper on the childhood wonder and joy? This was our first Christmas living with our new lifestyle standards. I am not going to lie, it was difficult to not fall back into our old habits of buying more gifts than is necessary when it comes to filling stockings and under the Christmas tree for the five amazing little spirits we call our grandchildren. For our adult children and ourselves, it seems to be easier because we all cherish spending special time together whether it be sharing a great meal or playing games with the little ones. Our family is like many others, we live far and wide. Lives are busy and we aren’t always able to be together for the holidays. But no matter where we are, we feel the sense of family love in all of our activities and sharing of cheer.

One of my biggest struggles centers around the “season” of Christmas. I am one of those who loves Christmas music all year long. I am not sure where this love of holiday music comes from, but I do know that it puts me in a wonderful frame of mind. Giving, loving and honoring the birth Christ Jesus is not a “season”. Wishing friends and family Merry Christmas, in my opinion, should not happen as a “season” that has a beginning and an end. Spreading joy to the ones we love and even those we don’t know, should be the standard we live by. Love thy neighbor. What about the “golden rule”? Why can’t we live our lives with the joy of Christmas all year round? I have come to really dislike New Year’s Resolutions. So instead of committing to something that slips and is forgotten, I am focusing on what matters the most to me. I want to be someone that spreads joy to those I meet. I don’t want to wait for a certain month on the calendar. Living a life with more meaning also means making a difference in other’s lives. I don’t have to say Merry Christmas, but when I am with family, friends and even those I just meet, I want them to feel a positive energy and a sense of love and joy.

I love the family we have been blessed with. We can’t always be together but look forward to the next time we are, whether it is a holiday or just a quick visit. I hope you have spent time with those that mean the most to you. Our adventures in 2018 will have us far away from our family and friends, but we will have everyone of you with us in our hearts. We both wish you joy and happiness now and throughout the entire new year.

Happy Trails,

Sean & Gina